Showing posts with label reasons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label reasons. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Reasons Why You Shouldn't Say Sorry

Sorry! What does that word really mean? Google defines it as

"regretful: feeling or expressing regret or sorrow or a sense of loss over something done or undone. "

I have no problems with this definition. It’s just that, this is a feeling which needs to be expressed, not just a word said to escape reasoning. I know people who use this word all the time and not care. So, I came up with a list of reasons why you shouldn’t say sorry.

Reason#1; we are human!

  • We all make mistakes. From the day we were born we were considered sinners because of Adam and Eve’s wrongdoing. It is all-natural.



Reason#2; if you don’t mean it, it doesn’t really count.

  • Just saying sorry without the intention of really being sorry, doesn’t count. It just doesn’t! So why waste your time saying it.


Reason#3; the most important one, sorry was NEVER synonymous with “I won’t do it again.”

  • When you say “I won’t do it again”, there is an assurance that whatever the fault was will not happen again.

Saying sorry isn’t bad. It really is a good thing if delivered with pure intentions. So, when you’ve done somebody wrong, immediately apologize and mean it.